Lady Catherine

Pronouns: she/her

A little about me:

She wrote and produces the longest running weekend exploratory seminar for submissives and service oriented and/or power s-types. Servant's Retreat focuses on sustaining healthy power dynamic relationships by strengthening personal foundations and a path of inquiry.  SR did not ever include play classes—its sole focus is on individual personal development. Thirty plus years of educating and having taught at 600+ organizations, has provided her with the opportunity of teaching dozens of generations since 1983.
She has served on the boards of CARAS, LSM, FIST, SELF, and IMsL to name a few.  She currently serves on the Executive Board of Leather Archives and Museum. She is the first woman to be voted to that committee by her fellow seated board members. She is the producer of SouthEast LeatherFest (SELF). She is the Co-Coordinator and a Founding Member of one of the oldest batch patch clubs in the country, F.I.S.T. She also serves on the Board of Twisting Culture in Baltimore, MD. She is a co-founder of the Women's Leather History Project/Program.

She wrote and produces Foundations in Mastery for D-types. It is a weekend educational offering for owners, dominants, and masters which dives deep into emotional and practical skillsets for healthy relationships. What makes this seminar unique is how it is informed and crafted by the life experience of 4300+ submissives and s-types living in these relationships. This experiential seminar weekend provides great foundations and avenues to expand your horizons.

Her seminars have been given coast to coast in the US and internationally. She is an award winning educator.  She was honored by receiving:  Black Rose's Vaughn Keith National Educator Award in 2002, Pantheon of Leather Business of the Year award in 2006, Pantheon of Leather Southeast Region Service Award in 2006, Jack Stice Memorial Award 2016, MAsT-I Presenter of the Year 2016, and Lady Lynette Leadership Award 2018. 

Professionally, she has met the gold standard of coaching. Only 4% of coaches hold this highest credential.  She has chosen to work with alternative communities who are historically underserved.

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Lady Catherine

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  • Feline. FemmeGay. Owner.
  • She/Her

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FetLife: CatherineGross

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