Bastet (formerly known as Deedee) is a queer Afro-Latinx, from the Dominican Republic. Born and raised in the Bronx NY and she now lives in Brooklyn NY with her Master. Bastet’s pronouns are she/her/cat. She has been part of the scene since 2010, and has never turned back. 

"Bastet identifies as a slave and a sadomasochist Lioness and is a proud collared slave and majordomo of Sir Wu of House of Wu.  Her kinks can differ depending on her mood... sometimes she’s under the paddle, sometimes she holds the paddle! 

Bastet is a full patched member of OnyxPearls NY-NE where she has provided services as the Promotional Representative, Vice President, Road Captain, and now President. She he has worked hard behind the scenes with the many committee’s to help to provide very valuable help and information to the Chapter. 

Bastet has a deep profound love for the community and her chosen family and shows it by the service she provides. She enjoys dancing and living out loud!  She is part of MAsT Metro NY, Limitless Luxe Lifestyle, and ALFA (Atlantic Leather Family Alliance). She has attended and volunteered and presented at other events like MsC, MsC WorldWide, Weekend Reunion Events, MsG, and Flame Conference. She also was a judge for Northeast Leather 2022. 

Outside of kink & Leather, Bastet is a Chef for a Corporate Company in NYC. She is passionate about baking, cooking, spirituality, and learning about the history of food, and mental health. She loves to garden, read, and LOVES to watch back to back documentaries." 

Service can be rich a fulfilling part of ones journey, but what happenes when we serve to our detriment? What steps do we take to replenish? How do we find balance between giving and receiving service, and what part does EGO play in?
MalikaSG will facillitate  panelists  and  the audience as they discuss these topics and more.