The Service Oriented Conference is a two-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. The conference is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between. We welcome those from all backgrounds, races, ethnicities, genders, and identities who are interested in service learning, growth, and networking.
The Service Oriented Conference hosts classes, panels, and other educational events on both concrete service techniques and factors that impact the service we may give or receive. Topics focus on both personal service and community service, from the challenges of organizing events to the magic of folding a fitted sheet. Whatever you may think service includes, we hope to share a space where you can expand those ideas, learn new skills, and connect with other service-minded individuals.
October 10-11, 2026
Join us as we open the Service Oriented Conference with our keynote presentation by Jayson DaBoi.
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Join us for the conclusion of our wonderful weekend of service education with our keynote speakers Master David and brynn(she/her)
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Service can be both a kink that focuses on material needs and grows outwards and a kink focused on the aesthetics of financial privilege. This class will talk about the complexities of engaging with service dynamics with very different upbringings as well as different circumstances in adulthood. We'...
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The Business of Sisterhood is an exploration of the development of familial ties in relation to Kink & Leather communities. We will discuss the historical sisterhoods in African-American communities. Also touch on the leather organizations that have bred sisterhood opportunities. We will specificall...
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W/we often hear community members speak on living with Leather or BDSM community values, but rarely do W/we hear talk of how O/our values influence O/our service and play. In this class W/we will bring O/our values to the surface, discuss the ways in which they align with O/our communities, and disc...
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What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often-unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion. This class addresses: • Dominant drop and delayed emo...
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Does the role really exist? Absolutely. It is far more than taking notes or managing schedules. An international secretary operates at the intersection of language, culture, protocol, and logistics. They learn to navigate multiple time zones, translate not just words but customs and expectations, an...
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A lot of people love using marijuana. A lot of us use it during kink. Learn how to formally incorporate 420 into your kink. This includes how to roll a joint, selecting the appropriate strains and delivery modes (e.g. flower, edibles, dabs, etc.), cleaning glasswear and more!
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Living with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...
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When someone is willing to give you their everything, to entrust their life in your hands, how does that change communication? A good submissive is not suppose to talk back, right? This discussion will challenge a lot of the beliefs or thoughts around M/s relationships and how communication betwee...
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Service isn’t just about what we do—it’s about how we sustain it. For many service types, the invisible labor of remembering details, anticipating needs, and managing tasks can become overwhelming without the right tools and structures. This class dives into the practical and emotional side of servi...
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