The Service Oriented Conference is a two-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. The conference is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between. We welcome those from all backgrounds, races, ethnicities, genders, and identities who are interested in service learning, growth, and networking.
The Service Oriented Conference hosts classes, panels, and other educational events on both concrete service techniques and factors that impact the service we may give or receive. Topics focus on both personal service and community service, from the challenges of organizing events to the magic of folding a fitted sheet. Whatever you may think service includes, we hope to share a space where you can expand those ideas, learn new skills, and connect with other service-minded individuals.
October 10-11, 2026
Join us as we open the Service Oriented Conference with our keynote presentation by Jayson DaBoi.
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Join us for the conclusion of our wonderful weekend of service education with our keynote speakers Master David and brynn(she/her)
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One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is formal white glove dinner service. In this class we take a deep dive into some of the traditions of formal dinner service as well as expectation setting for you and your guests. We will also discuss the logistics from meal planning and seati...
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It can feel strange to not be in a dynamic or to be uninvolved. It often seems this entire community is set up for partnered people. Single, un-partnered participants may feel out of place. This class is designed to help you navigate and appreciate this time on your journey. The class goal is to hel...
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What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often-unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion. This class addresses: • Dominant drop and delayed emo...
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Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...
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Is It Hypervigilance or Is It Anticipatory Service? This interactive discussion looks at the line between anticipatory service and trauma-driven hypervigilance. Have you ever packed for time with your D-type and tried to fit everything and the kitchen sink into one bag “just in case”? We will look a...
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Service isn’t just about what we do—it’s about how we sustain it. For many service types, the invisible labor of remembering details, anticipating needs, and managing tasks can become overwhelming without the right tools and structures. This class dives into the practical and emotional side of servi...
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Leather, kink, and fetish formal events are powerful spaces to honor community, tradition, and connection through ceremony, protocol, and style. This class will walk you through the essentials of planning and hosting formal events tailored to these unique cultures—from conceptualizing the vision to...
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Service doesn’t just appear out of thin air. As a Master, your role goes beyond commanding obedience. It’s about shaping service that’s intentional, fulfilling, and deepens the connection between you and your submissive. In this class, you’ll learn how to guide your submissive toward a deeper unders...
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"I want to serve," names the pull, but not the mechanism underneath it. Two people who both say that phrase might be chasing completely different things: one wants the structure of clear tasks, another wants the charge of anticipating an unspoken need, another just wants to be useful enough to be ke...
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