Service-oriented people rarely plan for changes in service, the absence of someone or something to serve. The changes or silence hit differently than you expected. If your sense of self is organized around providing, losing that role can be bigger than grief alone; it can be destabilizing. This int...

Living with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...

The Service Resume: Building From Desire Instead of Capability Most service offerings can start in the same place: skills. What can you do? What are you good at? What have you been trained to offer? This interactive discussion doesn’t start there. We will start with a harder & quieter question, and...

Service doesn’t just appear out of thin air. As a Master, your role goes beyond commanding obedience. It’s about shaping service that’s intentional, fulfilling, and deepens the connection between you and your submissive. In this class, you’ll learn how to guide your submissive toward a deeper unders...

W/we often hear community members speak on living with Leather or BDSM community values, but rarely do W/we hear talk of how O/our values influence O/our service and play. In this class W/we will bring O/our values to the surface, discuss the ways in which they align with O/our communities, and disc...

When someone is willing to give you their everything, to entrust their life in your hands, how does that change communication? A good submissive is not suppose to talk back, right? This discussion will challenge a lot of the beliefs or thoughts around M/s relationships and how communication betwee...

A lot of people love using marijuana. A lot of us use it during kink. Learn how to formally incorporate 420 into your kink. This includes how to roll a joint, selecting the appropriate strains and delivery modes (e.g. flower, edibles, dabs, etc.), cleaning glasswear and more!

Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...

One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is formal white glove dinner service. In this class we take a deep dive into some of the traditions of formal dinner service as well as expectation setting for you and your guests. We will also discuss the logistics from meal planning and seati...