Living with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...

Is It Hypervigilance or Is It Anticipatory Service? This interactive discussion looks at the line between anticipatory service and trauma-driven hypervigilance. Have you ever packed for time with your D-type and tried to fit everything and the kitchen sink into one bag “just in case”? We will look a...

Leather, kink, and fetish formal events are powerful spaces to honor community, tradition, and connection through ceremony, protocol, and style. This class will walk you through the essentials of planning and hosting formal events tailored to these unique cultures—from conceptualizing the vision to...

The Service Resume: Building From Desire Instead of Capability Most service offerings can start in the same place: skills. What can you do? What are you good at? What have you been trained to offer? This interactive discussion doesn’t start there. We will start with a harder & quieter question, and...

Does the role really exist? Absolutely. It is far more than taking notes or managing schedules. An international secretary operates at the intersection of language, culture, protocol, and logistics. They learn to navigate multiple time zones, translate not just words but customs and expectations, an...

Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...

One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is formal white glove dinner service. In this class we take a deep dive into some of the traditions of formal dinner service as well as expectation setting for you and your guests. We will also discuss the logistics from meal planning and seati...

The Business of Sisterhood is an exploration of the development of familial ties in relation to Kink & Leather communities. We will discuss the historical sisterhoods in African-American communities. Also touch on the leather organizations that have bred sisterhood opportunities. We will specificall...

Anticipatory service means predicting and fulfilling needs or solving problems before even being asked--without stepping on any toes. This term is commonly used in the hospitality industry and butlers' books. Explore the nuanced power exchange created when anticipatory service is offered, and how...