What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often-unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion. This class addresses: • Dominant drop and delayed emo...

Service-oriented people rarely plan for changes in service, the absence of someone or something to serve. The changes or silence hit differently than you expected. If your sense of self is organized around providing, losing that role can be bigger than grief alone; it can be destabilizing. This int...

One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is formal white glove dinner service. In this class we take a deep dive into some of the traditions of formal dinner service as well as expectation setting for you and your guests. We will also discuss the logistics from meal planning and seati...

Service isn’t just about what we do—it’s about how we sustain it. For many service types, the invisible labor of remembering details, anticipating needs, and managing tasks can become overwhelming without the right tools and structures. This class dives into the practical and emotional side of servi...

Service can be both a kink that focuses on material needs and grows outwards and a kink focused on the aesthetics of financial privilege. This class will talk about the complexities of engaging with service dynamics with very different upbringings as well as different circumstances in adulthood. We'...

Living with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...

Leather, kink, and fetish formal events are powerful spaces to honor community, tradition, and connection through ceremony, protocol, and style. This class will walk you through the essentials of planning and hosting formal events tailored to these unique cultures—from conceptualizing the vision to...

A lot of people love using marijuana. A lot of us use it during kink. Learn how to formally incorporate 420 into your kink. This includes how to roll a joint, selecting the appropriate strains and delivery modes (e.g. flower, edibles, dabs, etc.), cleaning glasswear and more!

Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...