Is It Hypervigilance or Is It Anticipatory Service? This interactive discussion looks at the line between anticipatory service and trauma-driven hypervigilance. Have you ever packed for time with your D-type and tried to fit everything and the kitchen sink into one bag “just in case”? We will look a...

Service can be both a kink that focuses on material needs and grows outwards and a kink focused on the aesthetics of financial privilege. This class will talk about the complexities of engaging with service dynamics with very different upbringings as well as different circumstances in adulthood. We'...

What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often-unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion. This class addresses: • Dominant drop and delayed emo...

The Service Resume: Building From Desire Instead of Capability Most service offerings can start in the same place: skills. What can you do? What are you good at? What have you been trained to offer? This interactive discussion doesn’t start there. We will start with a harder & quieter question, and...

When someone is willing to give you their everything, to entrust their life in your hands, how does that change communication? A good submissive is not suppose to talk back, right? This discussion will challenge a lot of the beliefs or thoughts around M/s relationships and how communication betwee...

Service isn’t just about what we do—it’s about how we sustain it. For many service types, the invisible labor of remembering details, anticipating needs, and managing tasks can become overwhelming without the right tools and structures. This class dives into the practical and emotional side of servi...

A lot of people love using marijuana. A lot of us use it during kink. Learn how to formally incorporate 420 into your kink. This includes how to roll a joint, selecting the appropriate strains and delivery modes (e.g. flower, edibles, dabs, etc.), cleaning glasswear and more!

Anticipatory service means predicting and fulfilling needs or solving problems before even being asked--without stepping on any toes. This term is commonly used in the hospitality industry and butlers' books. Explore the nuanced power exchange created when anticipatory service is offered, and how...

Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...