Daijah Flames

Daijah Flames (pronounced Day-Jah) is a bubbly, pansexual, panromantic, polyamorous leather middle based in NJ and originally from Queens, NY. Daijah is founder of Boots and BBQ Munch which is an event that celebrates bootblacks and the art of bootblacking with fun, drinks, community, and of course bootblacking.

She has shown she is service minded and has a service heart since she pledged and became a full member of Onyx Pearls NY NE where she supports her siblings by handling secretary duties such as minutes and being the handler of her sister slave akasha Eden who won Northeast M/s couple 2024.

She has been recognized for her work as a bootblack at several conference and play spaces such as Folsom Street East 2023 and 2024, Submit NYC, Low Key Kink, Sanctuary Events, IMsLBB 2023 and 2024, SheMagik Events, The ColosseumNY, NJ Leather Family Beer Bust, Westcoast Bound 2024, SPLF 2024, and South West M/s 2024 and was gifted a house bootblack patch for her service to both community and members of House of Kush.

She has been a performer, staff, bootblack, and contestant of Mx Submit Leather 2023 and given the honor of becoming Head Bootblack at the play space Submit NYC that was established in 1998. Daijah will also be training as co-producer to help the event to continue to run for leatherqueer, trans, and femme folks in the NYC area.

For Daijah, her love of service doesn't stop there, offering herself as a bottom in play spaces, topping for fire, kink educator, and social media content creator. Daijah is passionate about creating and keeping safe spaces alive, protecting community members by using her voice to out predators and keep folks safe, offers opportunities for folks to reach out to her about bootblacking, and travels far and wide to do the things she loves.