Master Lola Smiles
Master Lola Smiles posed with her torso at an angle and her face toward the camera with one hand behind her head. She wears a black master's cap, black-framed glasses, and a black dress with a teardrop cut out toward the shoulder closest to the frame. She also has gold earrings, a silver necklace, assorted bracelets on the hand behind her head, and a red tattoo on her upper arm.
Pronouns
She/Her/Ella

Master Lola Smiles

Master Lola Smiles is a Latina Leatherwoman of Ecuadorian descent, a covered Master from Long Island, NY. She has been in the lifestyle for 3 decades - a BDSM educator & presenter, teaching throughout the U.S. and Internationally, and an event promoter for the last 12 years. Head of the House of SCK (est. 2018); Operations Lead & Co-Chair of the Leather Solidarity Collective; Publicity & Operations Lead for Twisting Culture.

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Saying No, Does That Mean It's Over

A discussion on why saying NO may be difficult but does that mean your dynamic is over. Hearing NO from your partner can be interpreted as disobedience or rejection and taken personally, yet it's likely not the case. Being aware of why someone is saying NO and conversely not being afraid or shy to...

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