vahavta (KinkBeyondLimits.com; Submission Beyond Limits: A Workbook for Empowered s-types) is a kink educator with over a decade of experience in BDSM and 24/7 power exchange relationships. Best known for her enthusiastic teaching style and candid writings, vahavta's classes on consensual nonconsent (CNC), emotional S/m, and bottoming for edge play have appeared at national kink conventions and for international communities, and she is the proud creator/curator of the kink Risk Evaluation Database (RED). vahavta is passionate about risk awareness and the validity of all consensual desires, and - as a disabled kinkster - their work honors the layered realities that shape each individual BDSM journey. Whether teaching, playing, or serving, vahavta aims to be a work in progress.
"I want to serve," names the pull, but not the mechanism underneath it. Two people who both say that phrase might be chasing completely different things: one wants the structure of clear tasks, another wants the charge of anticipating an unspoken need, another just wants to be useful enough to be ke...
Learn MoreLiving with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...
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