What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often-unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion.

This class addresses: • Dominant drop and delayed emotional or physical processing • Nervous system regulation after scenes and prolonged power exchange • Responsibility fatigue and the weight of continued command • Self-directed aftercare for Dominants • Receiving care from partners without destabilizing roles • Structural practices that support long-term dominance and clarity

While the workshop centres Dominants, submissives are welcome if they wish to better understand how to support their Dominants responsibly and without role confusion.