The Service Oriented Conference is a one-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. The conference is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between. We welcome those from all backgrounds, races, ethnicities, genders, and identities who are interested in service learning, growth, and networking.
The Service Oriented Conference hosts classes, panels, and other educational events on both concrete service techniques and factors that impact the service we may give or receive. Topics focus on both personal service and community service, from the challenges of organizing events to the magic of folding a fitted sheet. Whatever you may think service includes, we hope to share a space where you can expand those ideas, learn new skills, and connect with other service-minded individuals.
October 4, 2025
Join us as we open the Service Oriented Conference with our keynote presentation by Daisy Blue.
Join us for the conclusion of our wonderful day of service education with our keynote speakers Cream Dream.
Join girl Calyco for a chat about service! This session is intended to be an open and informal space for service receivers, service providers, those curious, and those in between. Bring your questions, share your stories, and come prepared to learn with an experienced and passionate member of the...
Learn MoreJuggling multiple partners and dynamics can be rewarding—but keeping track of everyone's needs, boundaries, and care preferences can feel overwhelming. Enter the Care and Keeping document: a living, personalized tool designed to streamline communication and enhance connection. In this interactive...
Learn MoreThis class is about service and an inner flow of energy and exchange from both parties to both satisfy, grow, and flourish in a dynamic. As a mutually anticipatory service-oriented Owner/property couple, we’ve learned that providing service to service can create an interesting exchange of emotion an...
Learn MoreJoin panel facilitator girl Calyco and our distinguished panelists for a discussion on providing and receiving personal and community service with a disability or chronic illness. The panel will explore overcoming challenges with navigating different kinds of service, finding new and unique ways to...
A discussion on why saying NO may be difficult but does that mean your dynamic is over. Hearing NO from your partner can be interpreted as disobedience or rejection and taken personally, yet it's likely not the case. Being aware of why someone is saying NO and conversely not being afraid or shy to...
Learn MoreThis presentation includes an overview of the key elements of personal chef and bartending services and the establishment of rituals of personal food service. We will discuss the creation of sacred food spaces in the household and the role of all of these elements in supporting authority transfer/po...
Learn MoreJoin British Domme Sixtress to learn the finer points of a traditional English Afternoon Tea. Add a touch of elegance to your service dynamic with a thoughtfully prepared and expertly served "tea". This session will cover savoury nibbles, sweet treats, hot beverages and those with bubbles plus the s...
Learn MoreThis panel invites a candid conversation about the complicated intersection of community care, labor, and capitalism. As organizers, healers, educators, artists, and activists, many of us find ourselves doing deeply meaningful work—often for free or at low cost—because we believe in it. But how do w...
Learn MoreWe have all heard the term topping from the bottom, and a bottom called a brat, but have we ever considered sometimes the service is ethically negotiated and the Top is fully aware? In this class lucky will delve in to the meaning of SIRvice, how it feeds dynamic and is not just for the right side o...
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